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| Toby Simon, (B.A. Syracuse University, M.Ed. Tufts), is the former Associate Dean of Student Life at Brown University. Ms. Simon started Brown's Sexual Assault Peer Education (SAPE) program in 1990. Since that time over three hundred undergraduates have participated in this program as peer educators attempting to reduce sex without consent in colleges, universities and high schools in the New England area. A sexuality trainer and consultant, Ms. Simon taught a Human Sexuality course at Brown for over ten years and is the author of numerous articles on the subjects of sexual assault, sexuality, and the alcohol/sex connection. She is a consultant on sexual harassment and assault at a variety of colleges, organizations including, the US Air Force Academy. Currently, Ms. Simon is part-time faculty teaching Human Sexuality at Rhode Island College in Providence and a Senior Affinity Faculty member at Brown University Medical School. SEX TALK: Losing It to Choosing It This lecture/audience participation event, accompanied by slides and video, provides practical advice about how to be a sexually aware college student today. No-one seems to be telling students the rules about sexual behavior - this program attempts to do so using humor and case studies. Audience members will be called on to demonstrate many of the scenarios presented. Video segments are presented from Ms. Simon's award winning educational videos "When A Kiss is Not Just a Kiss" and "Love's Not Supposed to Hurt" to illustrate key issues. Factual information about safer sex, sex under the influence of alcohol, sexual assault, and sexual etiquette will be provided. This lecture will include discussions of sexual choices, including abstinence, as well as sexual health concerns for college students. SEX FOR ONE Through the use of humor, history, and hype, this lecture tackles the taboo topic of sex for one. Rarely are students given the opportunity to address this subject in a public forum. Yet in their private lives, this is a topic of not only abundant conversation, but abundant practice. Myths abound about masturbation which only confuse students and undermines their attempts to become more comfortable with their sexuality. In addition to dispelling myths, important information about the practice of autoerotic asphyxiation will be addressed in this lecture. LOVE ON THE ROCKS Sex under the influence is a common practice among college students. Often sexual encounters are fueled by massive amounts of alcohol which students think makes sex easier and better. This lecture will attempt to dispel some of the myths about alcohol's role in enhancing sexual encounters through the use of humor, role-playing and case studies. Information on the effects of alcohol on one's libido, sexual performance and desire will be included in this talk. |